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I have an
interesting story of life to share with
you. When you first meet me you likely
do not see anything noticeable other
than a very tall man with glasses.
Wondering yet what else is so unique?
When my mother was pregnant with me, I
was exposed to German measles, and that
altered some of my development. But you
may wonder, how does a baby in the womb
get such a disease? Let me share.
In the town of Meridian, Mississippi, my
mother was in her third tri-mister of
pregnancy and a little boy next door
neighbor came over for a visit and
exposed her to the German measles. She
immediately called her mother to see if
she had the disease as a child.
Unfortunately, she was never exposed and
immediately contacted her doctor. The
doctor suggested a vaccination to
prevent German measles and did it work,
however there was little understanding
as to how her child yet in the womb
would be affected.
A gust of wind slammed baby’s door and
Jeffrey did not even flinch. My mother
noticed and slammed the door herself.
There was still no reaction. I was
diagnosed as suffering from a severe
hearing loss and learning disability.
As a child, the outlook was not too
bright for me.
A year later, we
lost our dog. My parents and I were in
the car looking for a dog, Spooky. I am
sitting in the backseat with tears in my
eyes helping my parents. My Mother
screamed at my Dad, he slammed the brake
and she said, “Did you hear this?” I
spoke my first words out loud, “Here
Pooky, Here Pooky” leaving out the first
letter of my dog’s name, S. That day
gave my parents so much hope.
In 1962, after
Rounds of Doctors’ visits in Memphis,
Birmingham, Jackson, and New Orleans, my
mother found a start up school, DuBard
School for Language Disorders, on the
campus of University of Southern
Mississippi, Hattiesburg, MS. In 1963,
old enough (Okay, you can do the math
guess my age now) at the age of four and
half I started my first day of school.
At 5 years old, my vocabulary was
limited to 12 words. I was very lucky
to have a mother very dedicated and
determined that I would live a normal
life like you and the rest of the
world. She was the first mother ever to
sit in the class and watch every day
how they worked with kids learn to speak
and read lips. Every day after school,
she worked with me. The majority of
parents did not do those two things
above. Lucky me! Thanks to Mom!
Six years later, I transitioned to
Public School beginning in the Third
Grade. Six weeks later, Teachers
suggested rounds of testing and
suggested I move up to Fourth Grade.
From there, I went on to Hinds Community
College with AA degree in General
Business and Belhaven College with BBA
degree in Management. From College
cheerleader, class favorite to ballroom
dance instructor, I accomplished a wide
range of talents and accomplishments.
I owe so much to
Mom (her name is Kitty) as you see her
picture below. She was all of the above,
mother, mentor, and best friend. She
had a lifetime project, that being she
dedicated herself to her son, Jeffrey.
I whispered to her ear, you were the
best Mom ever before she emerged in
Heaven October 8, 2007.
My Mom & Heroine
of the story of my life!
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Information about hearing loss:
http://www.nashhhville.org
http://www.earfoundation.org
Business Networking:
http://www.nashvillesertomaclub.org
www.eastnashville.org
As
someone who has dealt with the
challenges of hearing impairment my
entire life, I understand some of the
unique needs people with hearing loss
have. If you or someone you
love is hearing impaired and looking to
buy or sell a home, I would love to help
them in that process. Even if that means
just assuring them that what they've
perhaps already been told is in fact
what is right and good.
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